If anyone of our family members becomes ill physically, we use to go to doctor and take so much care. If the queen of the house becomes physically ill, the king does his duty. He immediately consults with Doctor. But why does he not take care when his queen becomes mentally ill? When the queen suffers mentally, he ignores. He says – “Don’t make me irritated, it is your duty to look after the prince and princess, so do your duty. Don’t talk foolish.”
What a great mistake he is doing, he can’t imagine. The medicine of these type of mental illness is with him only i.e nothing but his company, his love, his care with respect. He should understand the scenario that it is very difficult for a highly educated woman to be involved in the household works throughout the day. He goes to office daily. There he meets with so many colleagues, he talks with so many clients. He travels daily for the office. He does not feel bored because there are new things, new facts in his life. So many people are around him throughout the day. But she has fixed works. She does not meet new persons. She spends 5-6 hours alone. There are valid reasons why the women suffer more than men from mental illness.
How will the King come to know that his Queen will be in mental problem very soon :
- She is demanding something, you are not accepting that.
- She wants to do some works by which she can feel relaxed. You are not giving permission to her.
- She wants you to be with her. But you have no time.
If these things happen often, the queen will become ill mentally very soon.
How to identify that your Queen has mental illness :
- She will not smile for a while.
- She will behave like a machine with no emotions.
- She will be irritated easily.
- She will not take her food properly.
- Her health will be deteriorated.
- Her friend circles will be reduced.
- She will not have any positive energy.
My advice to all Family-Kings :
- Please take care of your wife’s mental health.
- Give respect on her desires.
- Ask her how she will be happy.
- Believe me, if you give your 40% valuable time with her, she will give you 90% of her valuable time. She doesn’t want to become rich monetary. She wants to become rich in love. She wants to fill up her heart with lots loves.
- You give your wife a good company, she will give you a lovely beautiful home.
Help your Queen in the following ways :
- Spend some time with her after office hours.
- Give her importance other than laptop or social sites.
- Talk to her and Listen to her.
- Smile and make her smile
- Look back when you were in love with her. Share those moments with each other.
- Go for a short family-tour often.
- Always connect with Nature.
- Do plantation together.
- Do donation together.Go to street where so many people are hungry and have no food. Feed them from your heart. But do it both of you together.
- Make fun.
- Watch movies together.
- Always share new things to her. If you are pressurized in office works, tell her about your problems.
- Don’t bring office works at Home. Don’t join office at least on Sundays.
- Don’t go to a party alone. Always stay together.
- Help her in cooking whenever possible.
- Smile, Smile and Smile
- Always be connected by heart and give company.
Relationship matters a lot. If husband – wife relationship becomes sweet and deep, the family can progress a lot. Their children will be guided by their parents in a proper way. Children will get a healthy environment to grow up.
It is very necessary to be mentally fit for both husband and wife.
If you give your wife a good company, she will give you a lovely, beautiful home and life will be enlightened. Both of you are important to make a beautiful home. Many beautiful homes together will create a beautiful world.
Thank you for reading. Let us make a beautiful world together. God bless.