When a floor and roof are supported by four walls, it becomes a room. It becomes stable. When wind blows at high speed, it can’t hit the room. But what will happen if there are only three walls in stead of four? It will be a room where one side is completely opened like shop. It will get less support than that of previous case, but still it will get protected from storm and rain. Again, if one more wall is reduced that mean only two walls and floor, roof; it will become like corridor. If there is only one wall along with floor and roof, it will become a terrace.
Now, treat floor as mother, roof as father and walls are children. Which one do you feel most comfortable from natural calamity? Of course, it is a room. Similarly, if you want to lead a happy family you should choose a room. It means all relationships will exist if someone have four children. But unfortunately, you can’t choose a room because of huge population. So, now you have three options- shop, corridor and terrace. Again you can’t choose second option – “shop” due to population at least in India. Only two options are there – corridor and terrace. Now, which one will you choose? Expenditures in making terrace is very cheap whereas corridor is little bit costly. Strength in corridor is higher than terrace. In corridor, natural ventilation occurs whereas when you stand in the terrace, nice ventilation doesn’t occur as all three sides are open. Corridor gives more protection during rain than that of terrace. All these comparisons are true for a family with two children and a family with a single one. It is always better having two children in a family. As in corridor, wind blows from one side to another side touching both walls, two children in a family can play, fight, can become friends, can become a helping hand to each other. In case of terrace, from all three sides wind comes and hits the wall and the wall loses it’s strength. Similarly, when there is one child in a family, child feels lonely.
Though corridor is costlier than terrace, choose a corridor only not a terrace. Corridor will give you more rigidity than that of terrac. Hence, go for two children and it will reduce your problems for the long term.
Thank you for reading. Let us make a beautiful world together. God bless.
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Nice….
If the choice was between one or none. Then one any and every time.
I get your point though. I have one son but grew up with a brother and two sisters. I worry about what he will miss out on. Especially when I die.
I know adults who were only children. Have received different perspectives from them. Some feel they missed out, some don’t. You can’t miss what you never had.
Thoughtful post! Good read.
Your son is lucky then as he is growing up with his cousins. In many family, it is single child and often child asks-” what shall I do, I am getting bored”, no cousin, no friends, no playing makes a child lonely.. We should think two child for the sake of them only… Long years ego.. There were joint families.. Children were playing so much… Nowadays nothing is there…
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You too Tanusri sen. I hope you are keeping well and best wishes to you.
Explained with such a beautiful example! Good work💯
Thanks so much ! Have a nice day !
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One thought: I have never met an only child who wanted to have an only child.
Thank you very much 🙏 for sharing your thoughts
Yes.. That’s true… Yesterday I met wth one of my friend and she was only child in her family… She was telling about her bad experience when she lost her father and nobody was there wth whom she would share her pain… That is the reason she took second baby…
I have one and I know sometimes it’s difficult. But in today’s time if you are staying in big cities then one is enough.
Many people have one…and it is enough for us. But is it enough for them (for children)…..even me too have one child (he he he)….
Yes, I also sometimes realize that it’s trouble to have only one, but when I see around all my cousins, including my brother have one. However, if we think practically, then one is enough.
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Children are indeed a blessing. I am blessed with five wonderful daughters.
Absolutely agree. It’s good to know this from you.. Thank you 😃 🙏
I think there is no universal law, one must consider many factors very wisely. Good for parents and children.
Yes, right. But all relationships like uncle, aunt will be there if four children are there… He he he… I know it is just impossible. Even I also hv only one kid.. But here i hv focused on the comparison…
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Nice thoughts..
Thank you very much
very good conclusion advice; Nigerians and other populous nations need the same advice, which is advisable especially for the benefit of the economy
Thanks so much for your kind read and sharing your thoughts here 🙏