A child’s happiness is linked with mother’s mood. If mother becomes happy then only child can be happy. When mother will be happy, mother will be able to give her valuable time to her child. But if mother does not become happy, she can’t be able to give her attention to her child.
If being a mother, you want to make your child happy, you have to do lots of fun with your child and it needs fresh mind and lots of energy mentally as well as physically. In our so called traditional families, a child’s total care including education has been looked after by child’s mother. The mother has to look after her family as well as child’s ins and outs activities. Mother’s role is very vital in a family. If the mother does a private job, it is being too hectic to take care of her child. Mother of double child gets more rest than that of mother of single child. When there are two children in your family,they learn many things from themselves. They learn eating the foods,sharing the things with friends,arranging his /her things by own. They may help their mother.
Nowadays,children are missing the fun in playground at afternoon. But if there are two children in one family,then they can play with each other. But how will you handle your stress when you are a mother of single child , when your husband is busy by 24 hrs x7 days,when you are working in a private company, when your parents or parent-in-laws are not in a position to look after their grandchildren ? How to handle this crucial situation ? Are you thinking of leaving your job ? Are you being tired in changing your maids often ?
Be relax and cool down. Change your attitude. Everything is possible. Never think about leaving your job ? First read yourself. Are you victim of emotional bonds to your husband ? Are the problem lying somewhere else ? Or is it problem regarding your physical energy ? Human being have lots of physical energy if he /she maintains a minimum diet. I think -you are being tired, restless as because you don’t have mental energy. Once your mind becomes fully energetic, you will observe that not only two but also you can handle many children as well as household works and your jobs simultaneously. If your husband is busy by 24 hrs x 7 days, you do your duty only,leave the emotional outbursts. Be strong. Focus your goal. If your husband is co-operative, fulfills your all requirements,then emotional bonding will give you energy. But if your husband becomes too busy that he never gets time to take the updated news about you and your children, then leave the emotions and go ahead. If you argue with your husband and asked him to do some household works, if he listens,it is okay but if he does not listen,then also it is okay. It does not mean you have to fight with him regarding this issue and have to convert this issue into a divorce. Never do this, rather do your work and show him that you can do everything without his help. Oneday, he must feel loneliness, when he will need you but will not get you as because you have become too busy in your childrens’ carrier as well as in your own carrier.
Always believe in yourself. Be bold and strong enough. You can,you only can. Get happiness in your busy schedule. Don’t cry over the split milk in any issue. Make your present awesome,so that you have not to regret in future for your past. All the best. God bless you !